She is using oxygen only at bedtime at the present time. I’m just not sure about putting her through this change at her age. We just recently switched to a different heart doctor and I just don’t know if this is just extra money for the doctor or if my mom really needs this at this time?
She was diagnosed with COPD about 20 years ago and has stopped/quit smoking 10 years ago. She does suffer from CHF/A-Fib, and has occasional swelling in feet and legs, takes a diuretic for that when needed. The Doctor said she has a strong heart but does have mitro valve prolapse. She also has a pacemaker.
Does anyone of y’all’s parents use CPAP at this age of life? Mom has limited mobility issues. I’m just uncertain if she really needs this or not? Any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you & God Bless
The sleep study is nothing to worry about. I had to go twice because I could not get to sleep! For the second test I was given one Ambien and Zzzzzz.
On thing that GREATLY helped Moms transition to the CPAP machine is we moved her bed near the wall. We then got a commode. We placed the commode against the wall so it is safe and braced. This way SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO TAKE OFF THE HOSE AT NIGHT. She had so much trouble with removing the hose, it was a nightmare! Now she steps out of the bed, takes two steps and can go to the restroom and get right back in bed. She DOES NOT have to remove the hose! Hallelujah! We have the CPAP on a small step stool next to head of her bed. We drill and drill Mom to be care to not get tangled with the hose. Even with Moms moderate dementia she does a wonderful job not getting tangled with the hose. Very low risk. The hose is short and the bed is close to the commode. No problems! I make sure to quickly dump the commode contents in the toilet for her every morning so it is low key and she never feels like it is a bother.
This has been a major game changer for us so our family can sleep through the night. Also as an added plus Moms Doctor said that many seniors fall and break bones at NIGHT when they are sleepy and go to the bathroom. We didn't want this complication on top of Mom's other medical issues.
Be sure to place the commode against a wall for stability. We also have a small cardboard box, next to the commode, that is just the right height with a roll of toilet paper on it. This way she does not need to bend down to the floor to pick up her toilet paper. I make sure the small/tall box is placed towards the mid-back area to the left of the commode so that it is a NOT a trip hazard. There is no way it will cause her to trip due to the placement. I hope this helps-Mom refused, kicked and screamed when we first tried out this system and we asked (demanded) that she try it out for "two weeks." We told her that if she does not like it, we will go back to her old routine of the regular bathroom. After 5 days she completely saw the light and we have been using this system for over 4 years now. She likes being more independent with this method and not having to wake us up when she could not get the hose detached. It has also been as blessing as she aged and became a higher fall risk because she is already used to the commode routine. All my Best, Anne
Link between Alzheimer’s and sleep apnea affirmed in brain tissue study
https://newatlas.com/health-wellbeing/alzheimers-dementia-sleep-apnea-link-brain-tissue-rmit/
I have Obstructive Sleep Apnea that was diagnosed when I was 51 years old. I had a sleep study done at a sleep center. I would stop breathing about 20 times an hour.
I think I had sleep apnea for decades.
I would often wake up with a headache and was tired during the day. My sleep apnea caused me to hallucinate during the night. It's scary seeing strange men in my bedroom or bugs crawling up the walls. I remembered the hallucinations. They seemed so real. I was semi-awake when they happened. I would also choke a lot in my sleep. One night I told my husband to feel my throat because I thought I swallowed a cheese grater that I bought the day before. I did so many weird things in my sleep, like asking my husband who is it, whose there. I would fiddle with the outlets. I unplug them and plug them back in multiple times. That's a bit dangerous. I have so many stories.
Once I started with my CPAP machine all that stopped. It has been 15 years and I have never had another hallucination. No more frogs in the bed or bugs on the wall or strange men in my bedroom. I never go to sleep without my machine. I don't have headaches in the morning and I am not tired during the day. My sleep is so peaceful and restful.
The wired me up, I went to sleep and they woke me half-way through the night and put a CPAP mask on. In the morning they had a machine adjusted for my use.
They explained that the reason I was depressed was that I could not dream. The mind needs to dream, otherwise you get depressed. The reason I could not learn anything new was because I had no deep sleep and long-term memories are only formed in deep sleep.
I was determined to succeed. It took me three nights to get used to the feel of the mask and I have used a CPAP machine ever since. All my abilities came back, but I had already resigned when I realized how inept I had become and I didn't want to become an embarrassment to the school.
What they didn't explain was what happens when you stop breathing. Your heart starts racing to get oxygen to the brain. When that doesn't work, you get a jolt of adrenalin to make you gasp and start breathing again. Adrenalin irritates your arteries and your body's response to that is to lay down cholesterol. Irritated arteries are a big danger.
So I got my CPAP machine in March and the following December had an emergency quadruple bypass because of my clogged arteries. It was then I was told of the connection between sleep apnea and clogging arteries. When I learned that, I decided to use my CPAP machines while napping, too. Why hurt yourself? Yes, you have to get used to wearing the mask. But you can.
Whether someone that old can learn is another question.
I routinely get 7 or more hours of sleep a night. My latest machine gives me a score each night on how well I did. I chart all the information to monitor how I am doing. My most frequent score is 100, then 99, 98, 97, etc. My most frequent number of sleep stoppages per hour is .5, then .2 I had one month last fall where I had 29 scores of 100 out of 30 nights. Then the mask leakage problems began. I still score in the 90s each night, but seldom reach 100.
When it is time to sleep, I kiss my wife goodnight, put on my mask, pull the covers over my head and am often asleep in a minute. I sometimes awake when I change from one side to the other, but immediately go to sleep again. My good sized bladder means I seldom need the bathroom until morning.
I love having all my abilities back. I exercise 2-3 days a week, am trying to learn a foreign language and enjoy having a mind that works well.
I have no idea how this would work with someone so old and further along in their decline. But there are many potential benefits from succeeding with this if you can.
She’s tired ALL the time, so she had a sleep study done and is suppose to wear a CPap, but refuses. Her sleep study showed that she stops breathing 38 times per minute!!
Combine that with the alzheiemers brain wasting away. It’s a horrible combination. She sleeps 20-22 hours EVERY day and my 87 year old father cannot get her to Do what the doctors suggest. She has severe short term memory issues of course.
As a family, we have resigned ourselves that she will more than likely die in her sleep from lack of oxygen. Some things medicine just can’t fix.
As a full time care giver at age 87, I remind my Dad at how much easier he has it than most caregivers. My mom is always in bed. She doesn’t wander, she doesn’t follow him around, She doesn’t get angry, anxious or obnoxious....because she’s literally SLEEPING her life away.
I think this is a pretty sweet deal for her. So much of the Alzheimer’s angst and difficulties are not an issue.
its taken my Dad time to accept this, but he sees the benefits now.
Life......full of surprises.
I have always wondered why when there are heart problems in an individual why the DRs do not look into sleep apnea issues first. That to me is the baseline probability of heart problems as this happened to me. If an elder needs CPAP and you do not use it this will only lead to more heart problems and possibly a bypass surgery guaranteed.
Putting on a CPAP mask is nothing the challenge is because they are elderly are they going to keep it on all night? That's your problem. Hope someone is living with your mother to monitor this. I will also add because I have been reading the comments - - - - anyone saying to you that you should not do this sleep test to find out if she has sleep apnea is just contributing to your mother's death and they should shut up, they are not DRs. Sleep apnea is essentially a slow killer. Not kidding. It's the easiest thing to overcome. We are not talking about brain surgery here, we are talking an easy fix to get your mother healthy again...OMG>>.
To say that people who question the sleep test are contributing to her mother's death seems over the top to me. Remember, this woman is old with dementia.
She'd get up to go to the bathroom every two hours, so of course she'd never use the thing.
She's still plugging along just fine at 91.
It OK to say no. Some doctors like to try everything, but you aren't obligated to go along with it.
My whole life has changed for the better in CPAP machine. It's the best thing that has happened to me since afflicted with this and I feel 210% better!! The test is simple and I do not know why anyone would discourage the poster???
Sleep apnea if you have it causes your brain not to receive sufficient oxygen during sleep. You might read up on sleep apnea. The CPAP machine is for treating sleep apnea. Some people have reported success by losing weight or playing a dgiridoo or even just doing neck exercises. The doctor might not even mention these things.
They have made cpap nasals where you do not have to wear the cpap over face and mouth. A lot more comfortable.
At your mom's age, I can understand your concern.