What can the most serious consequence be? Being 77 years old and financially needing to work 1 to 2 12 hour shifts a week, I need his physical strength to do things like shopping, cleaning, heavy lifting and running errands for me. He is also a full-time college student but is able to do the above for me. I’m going to put him as a caregiver but was wondering what the consequences will be if they tell him to leave and I don’t.
i would not let him move in until you find an answer and then get that in writing so they can’t change the ruling.
You should look at the by laws of the community and see what they say. Is someone under 55 able to spend the night at all or is there a limit to the number of days a week?
If this is not addressed in the Home Owners Association by laws ask at the office where you can find the information.
Talking to an Elder Care Attorney might be appropriate.
Only you can decide if it is worth it to you. People who live in 55+ developments because they don't want to deal with younger people, so most likely someone will report you.
Yes, read your contract very well. If there is a Home Assoc., I would run it by them. I would do everything by the book. The whole thing about a 55 and up is no children or partying young people.
Good luck and come back and tell us how it works out.